Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Anuther sad 2nd post

Mango Relentlessly Huge
May 4th 2005 - September 26, 2012

 Our mom sed she iz thinkin'may-b not duin’the Werdless Wednesday post.  fer awhile.  She sez that the last 2 we did, tueday an'last week, haz bin followed with a late 2nd post that wuz a sad one – one ‘boutz a 2-legger (last week) or a 4-legger(this week), crossin’the Rainbow Bridge.  Last week it wuz Poppy Vic over at ZOOLATRY, Ann’s husband an’Zoey an’Maggy’s hu-dad.  
This mornin'we lerned of the Relentlessly Huge Mango’s totally unexpected crossin’The Bridge.
We just know the Mango Mama, the Master an’Dexter will miss him greatly.  If by sum weird chance sumone haz NOT left their condolencez fur  

Mango'z family pleeze take sum time now tue go due that now. Our mom wuz sent this in an email awhile ago an'asked us if we wood post it here - there r sum peepz who don't think it iz u need tue greeve fur a pet BUTT we all know dif'rent.



  • Grieve - Take time to grieve as you would for the loss
    of a loved one. Cry, get angry, mope, eat or do whatever makes you feel better. Grieving is a natural process and grieving for a pet is just as real and painful as grieving for a family member



  • Ignore mockers - Ignore those who tell you that it is
  • just an animal and get over it. Do not even listen to them or entertain their
    company right now.
     Seek comfort from those who understand - Seek out the
    other animal lovers you know and spend time with them. They are the only people
    who can truly understand what you are going through and sympathize with you.
     Enjoy good memories - It will take a few days but  look
    through photographs -first Christmas, your first home,  playing with your pet etc. cry but allow yourself to laugh through those tears and enjoy remembering the moments they brought joy to your lives.
    Give it time - There will be days months later that you will
    find yourself looking for your best friend or talking to him you may even breakdown and cry some. However, those days will get fewer while the memories still are strong. Someday you will see a picture or think about something without crying and smile.

    ~Shiloh'n Shasta~







    14 comments:

    Shelle Pennington said...

    Lovely tribute
    <3 Mango <3

    Shelle, Milo, Dixie and Newby,
    http://simpaticodreams.blogspot.com/

    ♥♥♥ The OP Pack ♥♥♥ said...

    Awww, don't feel that way. You did a lovely post about all your napping spots. Mango would be smiling at the cuteness of you two. It is a very sad day to have lost such a great guy. Soft woos and gentle hugs to his family.

    Woos - Phantom, Thunder, Ciara, and Lightning

    Finn said...

    Aw, just hopefully an odd coincidence that won't continue next week. I really like those words at the end, that is quite touching.

    Amber DaWeenie said...

    This is very touching. We will miss those lost for a very long time, but their spirits will always reign over Blogville.

    Nola said...

    Such a sad day
    Nola

    Two French Bulldogs said...

    so so sad
    Benny & Lily

    kissa-bull said...

    Too many of our dear friends have crossed recently. Today was also my second sad post...in a row no less.... Mango will be hugely missed by all those who knew him

    Uji, Izzy, Ziggy + Missi said...

    Sometimes bloggin can bee so hards, wee all feel likes wee lost a member ovs our family wen someone crosses Da Bridge, butts in a ways dats a good fing cos it shows dats how wee is in Blogville Wee is one big FAMILY so it is okays to bee sads wen someone leeves us

    Lovs
    Da K Krew
    xxxxxxxxxx

    Molly The Wally said...

    Very sad news and lovely tribute to Mango.
    Best wishes Molly

    Frankie Furter and Ernie said...

    This is just LOVELY.

    Lovable Lily said...

    Simply beautiful and very well said! Mango will be deeply missed.

    Hugs,
    Lily Belle & Muffin

    Roberta @ Silverwalk said...

    Thank you for sharing about Mango as well as your profound discourse on grief. Am heading to Mango's site now.

    Mango Momma said...

    Thank you for remembering my Mango so beautifully. My emotions are a roller coaster. Sometimes holding it together, sometimes barely able to look at the places where he always slept.

    Mango Momma

    Sankissjuice said...

    Hello!

    Oohhh we are so happy you grabbed the badge. Don't you worlry about wrilting the storyl immediately. Take a nice long nap and I am sure something great will come to you.

    Loookking forward to Monday??? nah,, let's take a nap.

    Sankissjuice